How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You
Love is a tricky thing—sometimes it hits you with no warning, sometimes, it pains you endlessly until you feel nothing, and sometimes, it just does not come, even when you have prayed long and hard for it. Often when love comes to people, the ones they love do not love them back. If you are in a similar situation, read on to find tips in order to make a guy fall in love with you.
Effective influencing, rather than shrewd manipulation
Yes, love is a creature of nature and thus it is very difficult to force upon people. What you can merely do in order to make a guy fall in love with you is to influence him to see your beauty as a person. Lead him to the path where he is able to see your wonderful traits, but never ever attempt to manipulate him by pretending to be somebody else, or worse, lying to make him believe that you have in you what he is looking for in a woman.
Actually, even before you attempt to make a guy fall in love with you, you must first have a strong sense of self. It is only when you know yourself and you are confident with what you have and what you do not have. Only then will you be capable of welcoming another person in your life. Otherwise, you will end up dissolving in your man’s shadow, and you will end up boring him.
Become instrumental in his success
Be a great and indispensable partner to the man you love. This means that you should be ready and able to bring out the very best in him. Affirm his strengths and be generous with your compliments. Remember that a person achieves things because he believes he can. A man will fall in love with you if he sees that being with you brings positive results in his life. Just a word of caution though—a lot of women mistake encouragement with putting intense pressure or otherwise nagging the man. You should avoid the latter because what your man needs is a partner, not a mother.
Do not forget to show him your fun side
The most attractive women are those who are able to laugh at their mistakes, throw caution to the wind, and generally live with a positive and cheerful disposition. This is because men do not like drama in general, and they avoid women who are negative like a plague. Unleash the inner child in you and enjoy the simple things in life. Chances are, the man you love will notice the way you are living your life and will be intrigued to get to know you better.
Smile always and look the man in the eye. This tells him that you are sincere.
Try not to get too physical in the first few dates
Men like a good chase, and when you surrender everything to him at the earliest instance, he has nothing left to fight for, and he will retreat. Instead, keep him wondering and pining for you by holding off on the heavy physical stuff (petting, heavy make-out sessions, and even sex). Remember that there is value in playing hard to get, the more you are patient, the more he will want to spend time with you.